What did you have for dinner last night? Who did you eat with? What did you discuss? I’m betting it wasn’t nearly as intense as the characters in Herman Koch’s The Dinner. This book came onto my radar when my two lovely colleagues came into the office and said “READ THIS BOOK. We can’t tell you anything about this book until you read it”. So I read it and I feel the exact same way that they do. Finding a way to rave about this book without revealing too much about the plot is a real dilemma when you operate a book blog though. That being said, I’m going to try to give you the bare bones so I don’t reveal too much, but make you want to go out to your local bookstore and pick up a copy to read immediately!
This is the story of two couples, one dinner and a very big decision to be made. This story is told from the point of Paul, a man who loves his wife and child, but doesn’t really have much time for anyone else. Society aggravates him like no other and at the drop of a hat, he loses it. This behaviour has been a common theme in his professional life and affects his day to day activities. Even the waiter drives him nuts! When it is revealed that their sons are involved in something so horrific (I cringed when I read what happened) trying to create a consecutive decision can be a difficult task if people can’t see eye to eye. Over the course of the dinner, conversations are had, things are revealed and tension is increased.
Every time I turned the page, I didn’t know what to expect. Which makes for the best kind of books, don’t you think? Herman Koch takes you on a real life roller coaster. You’re up, you’re down and you don’t know who to believe or who to trust. All that being said, I couldn’t stand Paul. I found him an angry, mean man but I needed to know where he was going and why he acted the way he did throughout the novel. In a lot of ways I found that my dislike for Paul gave the novel more context, it made me look beyond his personality and find the deeper meaning.
This is one book that you’re not going to want to put down. I was so engrossed in it that I read until 12:30am one night, which is always a good sign! I ensure you that if you decide to pick this one up, you will not be disappointed.

February 9, 2013 at 7:08 am
I just started this book last night. I think i should save your review until later, but so far I am pleasantly surprised.
February 9, 2013 at 8:55 am
I had the exact same reaction to this as you did! Everyone at work was buzzing about it and I devoured it in a mere three days because I HAD to know what happened. Love that you stayed up late to read it — the sign of a fantastic read! (And also, coffee soon! I’m free all weekend!)
February 10, 2013 at 2:00 pm
Just finished The Dinner. Blown away. And you’re right, it is hard to talk about the book without revealing too much. Though I must admit with Paul, I liked him at the beginning and grew to despise him. Pretentious restaurants get on my nerves too.
February 11, 2013 at 10:48 am
I’m finishing it up today. Saturday and Sunday night I read it in bed and I was fighting not to fall asleep because I just wanted to keep reading.
February 12, 2013 at 10:27 am
Aren’t those the BEST kind of books!
February 11, 2013 at 12:22 pm
Definitely adding this to my to-read list. But, the premise sounds a lot like the movie Carnage: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1692486/